8 tips for officiating a wedding

Couples are increasingly choosing to have a friend or family member officiate their wedding ceremonies instead of a religious leader or civil servant.

1. Get ordained.

2. Step into your role and take charge.

3. Write the liturgy.?

4. Email the couple’s friends and family members for inspiration.?

5. Interview the couple individually a few weeks before the wedding.

6. Encourage the couple to write their own vows.

7. Write your reflection.

8. Have fun and keep it real.